3 Ways to Invest in Your Dental Assistant

By: Ronda Holman

What Dentists Can Learn from Chef Tina in The Bear

In the TV series The Bear, one of the most compelling character arcs belongs to Chef Tina, played by Liza Colón-Zayas.

Tina begins the series as a seasoned line cook who is resistant to change, doing things the way they’ve always been done, not because they are the best methods, but because they are familiar.

She’s experienced and capable, but her spark has dimmed. She isn’t striving to grow; she’s simply surviving in her role.

But Tina’s journey takes a dramatic turn when her new boss, Carmen “Carmy” Berzatto, chooses to invest in her. Rather than criticizing her for her flaws or outdated habits, Carmy begins to teach her. He acknowledges her strengths and shows her a better way of working. Most importantly, he sees her potential, and that changes everything.

When Tina is encouraged, recognized, and given the opportunity to attend culinary school, her pride and passion come alive. We watch her rise from an average line cook to someone who owns her role with confidence, skill, and creativity

 Her growth was never about talent, she had that all along. It was about someone believing in her enough to guide her, teach her, and validate her abilities.

This storyline is a powerful lesson for dentists.

Your Dental Assistant Could Be Your Tina

Many dental assistants feel stuck, just like Tina at the start of The Bear. They follow the same steps and systems simply because “that’s how it’s always been done.”

But deep down, they often have untapped skills, ideas, and potential that go unnoticed. Without mentorship, encouragement, and opportunities to grow, they remain in survival mode instead of thriving in their role.

When a dentist takes the time to invest in their assistant, whether that means offering praise, taking time to teach new techniques, sending them to continuing education, or simply acknowledging their value, the results can be transformative.

Dental assistants, like Tina, often need:

  1. Acknowledgment: Someone to recognize their contributions and strengths.
  2. Education: Tools and opportunities to sharpen their skills and confidence.
  3. Validation: Encouragement that they have the ability to grow, lead, and take ownership.

Why Investment in Your Dental Assistants Matters

Dentists often underestimate how much of their success hinges on the motivation and pride of their assistants. When assistants feel overlooked or underutilized, they can disengage and do the bare minimum.

But when they’re empowered and appreciated, they become leaders within the practice, streamlining workflows, anticipating needs, and helping the dentist perform at their best.

Investing in your assistant isn’t just about training; it’s about mentorship and trust. Like Carmy’s approach with Tina, it’s about showing them they’re not just “helping out”, they’re an integral part of the patient experience and the success of the practice.

Are You Building a Culture Where Your Tina Can Shine?

Chef Tina’s journey is a reminder that potential often lies dormant until someone shines a light on it. Your dental assistant might already have all the drive and capability you wish for, they just need you to see it, nurture it, and encourage it to grow.

So ask yourself:

  • When was the last time you praised your assistant for something they did well?
  • Are you giving them tools to learn and advance?
  • Do they feel like a valued partner, or just a helper?

When you invest in your assistant’s growth, you’re not just elevating them—you’re elevating the entire practice.

Final Thought

Like Chef Tina, every dental assistant has the potential to take their role to the next level when they feel seen, supported, and encouraged.

A little belief and mentorship can turn an “average” assistant into a powerhouse team member who takes pride in their work and helps your practice thrive.

Keep Reading: Why Dental Teams Should Learn Together

Photo by olia danilevich

Ronda Holman

Ronda Holman

Ronda Holman found her passion for dental assisting while in the Air Force. She assisted in oral surgery, general dentistry, and ended her four-year service as a prophy tech, the military’s version of a dental hygienist. She married and spent 13 years traveling the country while her husband served in the Air Force. Each time Ronda relocated she got the opportunity to work in a new dental office, where she picked up pearls that have helped her become an expert in educating dental assistants. Her interests are immediate denture/partial fabrication, CEREC technology, patient education, and striving for optimal chairside skills. Ronda believes that every dental assistant has the potential to be a rock star assistant if given the right tools and guidance.